I sleep in a pile of pillows.
It’s something like a nest, and I curl up in a ball near the headboard.
This wouldn’t be a problem but it’s ingrained behavior so when I’m with J I wake up curled in a ball against the headboard and draped over his shoulder. His bed isn’t as soft as mine, nor does it have room for as many pillows. So, I use him as a pillow substitute. It’s really impractical and I usually end up with hip or back pain.
I’m not exactly sure if there’s a way to remedy this, but I refuse to give up my nest the other 5 days of the week.